I professed my love and was rejected. My feelings are hurt. My mind is overanalyzing every tiny bit of very itty bitty piece of conversation or interaction. Of course, I want the perfect movie ending, where D will realize his mistakes and come to me out of breath or in the middle of school or as I am boarding a plane. I have no idea what happens after that blessed moment, since that is normally the end. Still, I would buy an airplane ticket if I thought it would speed up D’s thought process and make him realize that he does need and want me.
Woe is me. I want to make up for being rejected, but I don’t want to create more problems. I have a telepathic power I can’t really control. Sometimes when I think about people, they call. I don’t mean I can get them to call in seconds, and I can’t control it in any way. I am pretty sure I couldn’t get D to call me right now. Still, as I was thinking about being reject, B or rather meaningless sex crossed my mind.
B and I broke up because he was a thirty year old boy. It was ages ago, but he still calls around holidays and on rainy summer days (he loves to golf). For some reasons when we broke up, B couldn’t get over it. He swears he didn’t know what he had when he had it. He constantly asks for one more chance. Sometimes he texts and I ignore them; other times, I am mean; and even fewer time am I very nice. I hate to encourage him. I realized after I subconsciously summoned his call this time that he was actually me only, I guess, less persistent.
Would I always be trying to get D to answer my texts? Would I be constantly seeking his attention like the heartbroken moron I am now? At least B had limited his texts and contacts to holidays and rain delays; I am not lasting two days without annoying D in some maniac way. Yet B doesn’t have it any better than me; at least, I get to make a scene every now and then.
So, here’s my dilemma. Do I have some fun with B? Maybe he deserves a chance? Maybe dating B will end in D storming through a crowded bar proclaiming his love for me on NYE? Maybe I would break B’s heart like mine is broken right now? I don’t want to do that. It goes back to there is no such thing as no strings attached sex.
I love a boy; he loves a girl. Another boy thinks he loves me, it doesn’t sound okay to take advantage of those feelings just to get laid. Or just to get over D.